To tie rings onto a ring bearer pillow, you will need to secure them with a ribbon or cord that is attached to the pillow. Start by positioning the rings on the pillow and then using the attached ribbons or cords, carefully loop them through each ring. Tie the ribbons or cords into a bow to keep the rings in place yet ensure the knots are loose enough for the best man to easily untie them during the ceremony. Now, let’s dive into the details to make sure the rings are both secure and presented beautifully.
Ribbon Selection and Preparation
Choosing the Right Ribbon
First, select a ribbon that complements the color scheme of your wedding and is sturdy enough to hold the rings. Satin or silk ribbons are most common because they’re elegant and easy to tie. Ribbon widths between 1/4 inch and 1/2 inch are ideal, but this can vary depending on the size of the pillow and rings.
Cutting and Attaching the Ribbon
Cut a length of ribbon—about 24 to 30 inches should be enough—to allow for enough slack to tie a bow and still have the ends drape elegantly over the sides of the pillow. If your pillow doesn’t already have a ribbon, you can attach one by sewing it to the center of the pillow. Make sure it is securely fastened to support the rings.
Securing the Rings
Positioning the Rings
Place the rings side by side on the pillow’s center. If you’re attaching two rings (such as an engagement ring and a wedding band), you might want to overlap them slightly or put them in a sequence that looks aesthetically pleasing.
Tying the Ribbon
Take the ribbon or cord and thread it through one ring, then either under or over the other ring, depending on how they are positioned. Gently pull the ends of the ribbon to ensure that the rings are snug against the pillow, but there is still enough slack to tie a bow. It’s important that the rings are secure enough to not fall off but not tied so tightly that it’s difficult to remove them during the ceremony.
Making the Bow
Creating a Simple Bow
Just like tying your shoes, make a simple bow with the ribbon. Make sure that the loops of the bow are proportional and not too large, as this can overshadow the rings. The ends of the ribbon should hang down prettily but shouldn’t be too long that they dangle excessively.
Securing the Bow
Once you’ve tied the bow to your liking, gently tug at the loops to ensure they hold their shape and are tight enough to keep the rings from slipping out. If your bow still feels loose, you may want to double-knot the bow for added security. This technique ensures the rings stay put while keeping the bow easy to untie when necessary.
Ring Bearer Pillow Alternatives
Ring Cushions with Pre-Attached Ribbons
Some ring bearer pillows come with pre-attached ribbons or cords designed for easy use. In this case, follow the same steps to thread the rings and tie the bow, making sure that the pre-attached ribbons are also secure.
Alternative Items to Hold Rings
If you’re eschewing the traditional pillow, other items like a small book, a decorative box, or a piece of driftwood can be used to hold the rings. Just be sure to affix a ribbon or secure holding place for the rings.
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Practice Makes Perfect
It’s a good idea to practice tying the rings onto your pillow before the wedding day. This will help you feel more comfortable with the process and ensure that everything goes smoothly during the actual ceremony.
Childproofing
If your ring bearer is very young, consider childproofing the rings on the pillow. Tie them with a more secure knot that only adults can untie. This prevents any accidental dropping or loss of the rings while still keeping them presentable.
Communication is Key
Make sure to communicate with the person responsible for untying the rings—usually the best man—about how the rings are secured. Let them know if you’ve tied a double knot or any specifics they need to be aware of to easily remove the rings when needed.
Finishing Thoughts
Tying rings onto a ring bearer pillow is a small but meaningful part of wedding preparations. The process not only ensures the safekeeping of your rings but also adds to the ceremonial elegance. Remember to choose a ribbon that matches your wedding theme, tie the rings securely with a beautiful bow, and communicate with your wedding party on how to handle the pillow and rings. With a little practice and attention to detail, you can effortlessly add this charming tradition to your special day.
